Tuesday, 1 September 2020

Spotlight On ... Labour!

I've decided to branch off for a while and share things other than just the stories of my direct ancestors.  The main motivation for this is my desire to share some of the many wonderful photos I've found of my extended family (not too many degrees of separation from my direct ancestors).  

These photos deserve to be in the spotlight, so I thought long and hard about an interesting way to do this.  Hence the decision to put together collections of photos that all share a common thread.  

For the eleventh collection post, the spotlight is on ...  Labour of love! 

Motherhood is such a life-long labour of love and the mothers of previous generations in my family tree overcame many challenges and faced difficult struggles raising their families.  In this post I'm sharing some truly lovely photos of these mothers with their children.


The mother seated in this photo is Annie Clark / Thompson nee Exton, my paternal 3rd great aunt.  


Born in Lincolnshire, England in 1839, she emigrated with her parents and three siblings to Australia in 1844 when she was 4 years old.

At the age of 14 she married William Clark, ten years older than her.  This was not an uncommon event in the colonies in the 1800s.


Annie went on to have eight children with William, before he died when she was aged 32.


Annie was a widower, raising her young family, for five years before marrying again at the age of 37.


This photo shows Annie with her eldest son Thomas around 1860.  Thomas has the look of a strong-willed child, and I wonder if he was a bit of a handful!  Annie looks weary in this photo, and I think her life would have been tough!  Annie died in 1919 at the age of 80 survived by six of her sons, one of her daughters, 40 grandchildren and 38 great-grandchildren.


Common Ancestors with Annie:  my 3rd great grandparents James Exton and Susannah Lancaster  (Annie's parents).



This photo shows mother Alice Brown nee Maguire, the wife of my paternal 2nd great uncle.


Alice was born in 1875 and married Robert Frederick Bayley Brown in 1892 when she was 17 years old.


Alice and Robert went on to have four children, all girls.


This photo shows Alice with three of her daughters Winifred Grace, Marietta Madge (known as Madge) and Vivian Hopetoun.  


Sadly, Alice died a mere three years after this photo was taken, shortly after giving birth to her fourth daughter.  She was only 28 years old.  These little girls lost their mother so early in their lives and according to family history, they did not see their father again after the death of their mother.  My heart just breaks when I think about this.

 

Common Ancestors with Alice's husband Robert and their daughters:  my 2x great grandparents Henry Johnson Brown and Caroline Penelope Browning (Robert's parents).



The young mother gazing so lovingly at her son in this photo is Mabel Cusack nee Hicks, the wife of my paternal 1st cousin 3x removed.


Mabel married William Hugh Fay Cusack when she was 20 years old.  They went on to have six children.


The young boy in this photo is Mabel's first born son Walter who came along in 1910.  Don't you just adore that boater on his head and that fabulous suit he's wearing.


I also adore Mabel's dress and that delicate bracelet she's wearing.  The fan, well I think it's a fan, in Mabel's hand is an extraordinary looking thing.  It's a fascinating photo!


Mabel died in June of 1933, aged just 46.  Her husband William died just over a month later.  They were survived by their five children.


Common Ancestors with Mabel's husband William and their children: my 2x great grandparents Patrick Cusack and Eliza Exton.



This mother is Elsie Louisa Bostock nee Fackerell, the wife of my paternal 2nd cousin 2x removed.


Elsie was born in 1888, married Robert Bostock in July of 1908 when she was 20 years old, and gave birth to the baby in this photo in October of 1908.


Baby Robert Neville was the first of eleven children born to Elsie and husband Robert.  


Elsie's last child was born in 1930 when she was 42 years old.  Elsie lived until the ripe old age of 99, dying just two months before her 100th birthday in 1988.  She was obviously a rather resilient woman.


Common Ancestors with Elsie's husband Robert and their children:  my paternal 3x great grandparents William Browning and Anne (Nancy) Littlejohns.




The mother in this photo is Jane Atherton nee Bardsley. 


Jane had married Thomas Arthur Atherton in 1895 when she was 18 years old.  They went on to have a family of five sons and two daughters.


This photo, taken in 1913, shows Jane with her two daughters.  Leila, aged 11, is standing beside her mother whose gaze is focused on baby Betty.




Here is another photo of mother Jane with her eldest daughter Leila, taken in the late 1930s.

Leila married my maternal 1st cousin 2x removed, Frank Warren Shaw.


Common Ancestors with Leila's husband Frank:  my 2x great grandparents Michael Farrell and Susan Muldowney (Downey)




This photo, taken around 1916, shows Margaret Magdalen Neylon nee Hickey (seated), my paternal 1st cousin 3x removed, with her daughter Julia Alice Neylon.


Margaret was born in 1858.  When she was 23 she married Thomas Neylon and they went on to have eleven children, although six of them did not survive their childhood years.  Julia Alice was the eldest, born in 1882.


According to family stories, this photo was an old style postcard probably sent off to Margaret's son Michael who was fighting in France during WW1.  Margaret would have been about 58 years old and daughter Julia would have been 34.


Sadly Michael never returned home, but the photo did when his belongings found their way back to Australia. Margaret only lived another eight years after the death of her son Michael.  She died in 1926 at the of 68.


Common Ancestors with Margaret:  my 3x great grandparents James Hickey and Margaret McNamara.


This mother is Mary Jane Reid nee Dooley, my paternal 1st cousin 3x removed, born in 1887.  She married the father of her daughters, Alexander Reid, in 1915 just before he shipped off to fight in WW1.


This photo was likely taken in 1916 and sent off to Alexander as a reminder of what he had left behind.  Sadly he was killed in action in 1917.


The two young girls in the photo were Constance Jean, standing beside her mother, and Emma Eileen May.


Mary Jane gave birth to a son in 1918, re-married in 1924 and then had two more daughters.  She died in 1955 at the age of 68.


Here is a photo of Mary Jane with her only son Cyril James Reid, taken many years later in 1939 before Cyril went to serve in WW11.


At the time Mary Jane would have been 52 years old.  Thankfully Mary Jane was able to welcome her son back home safely at the end of the war.


When Mary Jane died in 1955, she was survived by all her children, but not by her second husband George Coldwell.  He had died in 1951.



Common Ancestors with Mary Jane:  my 3x great grandparents James Exton and Susannah Lancaster.



The mother looking upon her daughter in this photo is Frances Elizabeth Maude Dillon nee Kilfoyle, my paternal 1st cousin 2x removed.


Born in 1885 in Gunnedah, New South Wales, Frances married John Edwin Dillon in 1906 when she was 21.


They went on to have nine children.  The youngest Shirley Maude Dillon, seen in this photo, was born in 1929 when Frances was 44 years old.


Frances lived until her 63rd year, dying in 1948 and survived by her husband John and all their children.


Common Ancestors with Frances:  my 2x great grandparents Henry Johnson Brown and Caroline Penelope Browning.





This mother's name is Catherine Dwyer nee O'Donnell, my maternal 2nd great aunt, known as Kate to her family.  

Catherine (Kate) emigrated to the U.S.A. from Ireland sometime around 1900.  She married Richard B. Dwyer in 1902 and went on to have four children.  Anastacia was their first born, and Catherine came along four years later.


In this photo Catherine (Kate) is sitting on the front porch of her home with daughter Anastacia, on the right, and Catherine, on the left.



Common Ancestors with Catherine:  my 2x great grandparents John O'Donnell and Catherine Joy.


This is a photo of Sarah Muckian nee McCann, my maternal 2x great grandmother, and her son Edward Muckian.


I have not yet been able to find out many details about Sarah.  At this point in time I only know that she was born in 1821 in northern Ireland, she married Patrick Muckian when she was 32 (which, for the times, seems rather late in life to be married for the first time) and they went on to have five children.


Edward was Sarah's eldest son, born the year after her marriage when she was 33 years old.  


This photo was taken on the day of Edward's wedding in 1892.  Edward was 37 (again, that seems rather late in life) and Sarah, the proud mother, was 71 years old.


Common Ancestors with Sarah:  sadly I have not yet been able to discover the names of Sarah's parents.



This rather poised, serene looking mother is Elizabeth Shaw nee Farrell, my maternal 2nd great aunt.


Elizabeth was born in Durham, north-eastern England.  She migrated to Australia with her parents and siblings when she was 14.


In 1897 Elizabeth married Frank Shaw when she was 24 years old, and they went on to have five children.


In this photo Elizabeth is surrounded by her five children.  Her two boys are her eldest Frank standing to her right and her youngest Edwin standing on the chair beside her.  Her daughters are Mary and Margaret on the right and Dorothy is the little one cuddling up to her mother.


Common Ancestors with Elizabeth:  my 2nd great grandparents Michael Farrell and Susan Muldowney/Downey.



The mother in this photo is my maternal great grandmother Margaret McCane nee Farrell (the sister of Elizabeth in the previous photo).


Margaret was born in Newcastle-Upon-Tyne, Durhamshire, north-eastern England.  She emigrated to Australia in 1886 when she was 20 years old, with a younger sister.


This happened a year before her sister Elizabeth (pictured above), her other siblings and her parents came to Australia.


Margaret worked as a domestic servant for many years before marrying Owen Muckian (McCane) in 1892 when she was 26.


On a side note, Owen Muckian (whose name was anglicized upon arrival in Australia to McCane) was another son of Sarah Muckian nee McCann who was pictured earlier in the wedding day photo of Edward, her eldest son.


Margaret and her husband Owen went on to have a family of seven children.  Their eldest son Edward William died tragically when he was only 8 years old.  This photo, taken sometime around 1911 shows Margaret surrounded by her surviving boys Thomas (Tom), John (known as Jack), James (Jim) and her youngest Edward Joseph.  The two eldest daughters, Susan and Sarah, were not included in the sitting for this portrait.


This photo shows my elderly great grandmother Margaret McCane nee Farrell (the same lady from the photo above) with her daughter Sarah Mary Josephine McCane, my grandmother.





Common ancestors with Margaret:  my 2x great grandparents Michael Farrell and Susan Muldowney (Downey), Margaret's parents.



Finally, this last photo shows my mother, Margaret Brigid Connors nee O'Donnell, with myself and my brother.  

Sadly I don't have many photos of Mum with us both, so this is a little treasure.  

Margaret Brigid (known as Mina) O'Donnell was born in 1923, the daughter of Sarah Mary Josephine O'Donnell nee McCane (pictured above) and James O'Donnell.  Margaret was the second eldest of seven children.

She married Bede William Connors in 1959 when she was 35 years old.  Tragically their marriage only lasted nine years, as Margaret died in 1968.

This photo was taken around 1965 when Mum was 42, but was succumbing to the condition that had plagued her for many years.  Despite that, she put everything she had into being the best mother she could be, and that will always be a lasting and truly valued memory.



Tuesday, 25 August 2020

Spotlight On ... Wedding Days!

I've decided to branch off for a while and share things other than just the stories of my direct ancestors.  The main motivation for this is my desire to share some of the many wonderful photos I've found of my extended family (not too many degrees of separation from my direct ancestors).  


These photos deserve to be in the spotlight, so I thought long and hard about an interesting way to do this.  I've decided to put together collections of photos that all share a common thread.  For this post the spotlight is on ....   Wedding Days.


Many would say that their wedding day is one of the most unforgettable days of their life.  There are many wedding day photos in my family tree collection, but for this post I'm sharing some of the earliest photos where I've noticed something a little out of the ordinary and unforgettable.

Time Period:  1871-1919



1871
 
Alexander Johnson Brown, known as Sandy, my paternal 2nd great uncle married Margaret Jane Bustard in November of 1871.  

This photo was taken on their wedding day and my eyes are drawn to the bride. 

She is not dressed in the  'traditional' white wedding gown.

In fact, in the 19th century a white wedding dress would not have been a commonly seen item of clothing for those who were not wealthy.

Given that Alexander and Margaret, children of early pioneers in the Richmond River district, married at McLeod's Creek, near Tenterfield in northern New South Wales in 1871, I think it's highly unlikely they would have been able to find fancy wedding attire very easily and most likely wore the "best" clothes they owned.  Alexander's white trousers seem slightly unusual though!

Alexander, known as Sandy, was 22 years old and Margaret was 18.  They celebrated 60 years of marriage, both dying in 1931. Margaret died in March and it's said that Alexander stated at the time that "he'd like to go with her".  Indeed, he died just five months later. They had a family of 12 children.

Common Ancestors with Alexander: my 2x great grandparents Henry Johnson Brown and Caroline Penelope Browning.







1896

James Cusack, my paternal 1st cousin 3x removed, married Hannah Sutton in 1896.

This bride is wearing the expected beautiful white wedding dress, but that wasn't what drew my attention in this photo.

I just love the flowers atop Hannah's head!  It doesn't look like much thought was given to their appearance though.  Rather it looks like they were simply placed on top of her head!   

It also looks as though hasty alterations were made to adjust the length of James's trousers. 

On their wedding day, James was aged 34 and Hannah was 18 years old.  They were married for 23 years and had 13 children.

As with the previous couple, they both died in the same year.  James passed away in March of 1919 and Hannah died in July that same year, a victim of an influenza outbreak.

Common Ancestors with James:  my 3x great grandparents Michael Cusack and Mary Green




1900

Alma Florence Barrow, my paternal 2nd cousin 2x removed, married Charles John McCann in 1900.

Alma was 18 years old and Charles was aged 18 as well.

Alma is wearing a gown that is not in the traditional colour of white.  

She is also wearing flowers on her headpiece but they certainly look like part of a gorgeously designed veil.  The feathery fan seems an odd choice of accessory though!  That certainly drew my attention.  Charles is looking quite dapper in his dark wedding suit.

Alma and her husband Charles were married for 53 years.  Alma died in 1953 and Charles died the year after.  They had a family of nine children.  By the time Alma died, they had 24 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren.

Common Ancestors with Alma:  my paternal 3x great grandparents James Exton and Susannah Lancaster.




1902

Alice (Dolly) Holden, the sister-in-law of my maternal great grand uncle married John Kiely in February of 1902.  They were married for 52 years, until John's death in 1956.

On her wedding day Alice wore quite a plain outfit, again not the traditional white.  Her hat is styled quite simply, but the jaunty feather adds a special touch.  I'm not entirely sure why she's holding an umbrella for this portrait!

Husband John looks very dapper in his suit and I love the fact that he's holding his flat cap rather nonchalantly over his knee.




1906

William Hugh Cusack, my paternal 1st cousin 2x removed, married Mabel Hicks in 1906.

William was 21 and Mabel was 20.  They were married for 27 years. 

From the start of the 1900s, I start to see the white wedding dress appear more and more in the family tree photo collection, and Mabel's white wedding gown looks quite elegant.

What is going on with that hat though, I have to ask?  It just looks strange!  I'm not sure it would have been all that comfortable to wear! 

Mabel died in June of 1933 and William died the following month.  They had a family of six children.

Common Ancestors with William:  my 2x great grandparents Patrick Cusack and Eliza Exton.




1907

Amelia Barrow, my 2nd cousin 2x removed, married Thomas Neil McInnes in 1907.

Now that is a much more reasonable hat to wear on your wedding day!  The sleeves on Amelia's wedding dress are certainly multi-layered and the hem seems to have some rather fancy lacework or needlework as part of the design.

Amelia, known as Milly, was 19 years old and Thomas was aged 26 when they were wed.  They were married for 30 years until Thomas died in 1937.

They had a family of eight children.  Amelia survived her husband by 22 years but never re-married.

Common Ancestors with Amelia:  my paternal 3x great grandparents James Exton and Susannah Lancaster.




1908

Alfred Barrow Jnr, my paternal 2nd cousin 2x removed, married Mary Ellen McCann in 1908.

Alfred Jnr. was aged 28 and Mary Ellen, known as Nell, was 20.

I love everything about Mary Ellen's wedding dress, especially that spiral pattern above the hem.  

The headpiece though looks quite intricate and theatrical, and I notice she is holding a bridal bouquet.  That wasn't something seen in any of the previous photos.

Alfred and Mary Ellen were married for 36 years until Alfred died in 1944.  They had a family of four children.

Common Ancestors with Alfred:  my paternal 3x great grandparents James Exton and Susannah Lancaster.


1909


Adeline Sarah Cribb, my paternal uncle's mother-in-law, married Walter Henry Masters in 1909.

Adeline was 26 years old and Walter was 24.

The wedding dress has rather a high neckline, right up to Adeline's chin and there is a small flower spray attached in the very middle of the bodice of the dress.  I have not seen that on any other bride's dress for around the same time.  Adeline chose to wear a very pretty hat but no veil.




1911

In the middle of this family photo is the bride Agnes Jane Smith, my paternal 2nd cousin 2x removed, beside the seated groom Laban Arthur Ellem Jnr.  Agnes and Laban married in 1911, when Agnes was 24 and Laban was 26.

In this wedding day photo, Agnes is surrounded by her close family, including her parents, her brothers and sisters-in-law, and her sisters.  Her bridesmaid, front row far left, is her sister Fanny.  Her flower girl, standing in front of Agnes's mother and next to Fanny, is Sarah Ann.  Agnes's matron of honour is Emma, seated far right.  I adore Agnes's bridal bouquet.  It's almost as long as the skirt of her wedding dress!

Agnes and Laban (known as Arthur) were married for 18 years until Agnes died in 1929.  Sadly she died the day after giving birth to her sixth child when she was 41 years old.  

Common Ancestors with Agnes:  my 3x great grandparents William Henry Browning and Anne (Nancy) Littlejohns.




1912

In stark contrast to the previous wedding photo taken outdoors, here we have a studio photograph that's quite poised and almost regal-looking!

The bride is Bridget Mary Burke, my maternal 1st cousin 2x removed, standing sideways looking across her right shoulder, holding a stunning bridal bouquet. This is the first wedding gown where I've noticed a train at the back. 

The groom, seated in the middle of the shot, is James Dever, looking rather dignified.  Bridget and James were married in 1912 when Bridget was aged 33 and James was 32.  

In the wedding day photo, Bridget's bridesmaid is wearing an enormous but beautiful hat and holding a stunning bouquet of roses and ferns.  That lovely lady is my grandfather's sister and Bridget's cousin, Mary Margaret O'Donnell.

The bride and groom were married for 48 years and raised a family of four children.

Common Ancestors with Bridget:  my 2x great grandparents James Burke and Catherine Crotty




1916

Martha Hannah Thomas, my 2nd cousin 2x removed, married Harold Ackroyd Oxenham Moon in 1916.

I do so love the beautiful embroidered veil that Martha is wearing.  I wonder if it was a family heirloom?  There is the most exquisite detail all over that veil.

The dress in comparison is rather plain, although I noticed there is a lengthy train attached to the dress.

On their wedding day Martha was 28 years old and Harold was 29.  They were married for 23 years as Harold died in 1939.

They raised six children and lived their entire married life in Orange, New South Wales.

Common Ancestor with Martha:  my 3x great grandparents William Henry Browning and Anne (Nancy) Littlejohns.




1917

Charlotte Bertha Cusack, my paternal 1st cousin 2x removed, married Francis Sydney Busine in 1917.  

This wedding day photo is definitely not a studio shot and seems to have been taken very quickly in a spot where a tarpaulin of some sort had been strung or hung up perhaps in a back yard.

The bride does look lovely in her simple white dress and lace veil.  The groom looks exhausted though, as if he's recovering from a rather long bachelor's party held the night before!  

On their wedding day, both Charlotte and Francis were 18 years old.  They stayed married for 65 years until the death of Charlotte in 1971.

They raised three children, two sons and a daughter.  Sadly they both lived to see their eldest son, Sydney Herbert Thomas Busine, head off the fight in WW11 in 1939 when he was 21.  He was captured in early 1942 and held as a prisoner of war in Thailand and Burma, eventually succumbing to the combined effects of malnutrition and disease and dying in late 1943.

Common Ancestors with Charlotte:  my 2x great grandparents Patrick Cusack and Eliza Exton.




1918

Ivy May Browning, my paternal 2nd cousin 2x removed, married Clarence John Edward Moehead in 1918 when she was 17.  Clarence was 20 years old.

I find Ivy's wedding gown intriguing.  It appears to have a separate short bodice over the dress and there are two satin ribbons criss-crossed across the full pleated skirt.  It's rather an unusual look.  There seems to be a train attached to the back of the calf-length skirt and the look is completed with a long veil held in place with a floral wreath atop Ivy's head.

Common Ancestors with Ivy:  my paternal 3x great grandparents William Henry Browning and Anne (Nancy) Littlejohns.




1919

Susan Mary McCane, my maternal great aunt, married Frank Alexander Bidgood in 1919.

On their wedding day, Susan was 26 years old and Frank was 36.  

This is the first of the early 1900s wedding portraits in my collection where the bride is holding a horseshoe and prayer book, and not a bridal bouquet.  I know the horseshoe is a symbol of good luck, but I wonder when brides starting carrying them on their wedding day?

As with so many of my family tree wedding day photos taken before 1920, this is not a portrait taken in a studio. 

The photo was taken in the yard of Susan's parents' property near Gumlu, in northern Queensland.

Susan's and Frank's marriage lasted only 13 years as Frank died in 1932.  They had a family of seven children.  Susan lost her husband when she was aged 39, but she never re-married.



Tuesday, 18 August 2020

Spotlight On .... A Chosen Family!

A family that has always intrigued me a little is that of my paternal 1st cousin 3x removed Mary Jane Dooley, primarily because each of their lives were touched by war in some way.

Photo courtesy of Robert Waddell (my 3rd cousin once removed)

This photo, taken around 1939, shows Mary Jane, seated and surrounded by her children.  Mary Jane's children were born between the years 1912 and 1929.  What's interesting about this generation of children (any many others like them) is that they grew up with fathers and uncles who had gone off to serve in World War 1, and then these children went on to either serve themselves in World War 11 or marry someone who served in the second World War.

For those of us who were born long after those two world wars, the recent 75th anniversary of the end of World War 11 served as a reminder that we have been so very lucky and very blessed not having had any experience of a true global conflict!  In telling the story of this family, I've been trying to imagine the lives of families where members just a generation apart both experienced the horrors of war.  Small children growing up in the aftermath of lives ripped apart by the atrocities of the first world war, only to grow up and experience the same sort of sorrow and devastation.


To begin this family's story though, I will go back to talk about Mary Jane, my paternal 1st cousin 3x removed.  


Known to family as "Dolly", she was the youngest daughter of James Dooley and Emma Exton (my paternal 3rd great aunt), born in 1887 in a little town known as Newrybar, in the Northern Rivers Region of New South Wales. 


Mary Jane grew up with 12 older siblings, four brothers and eight sisters.  Those are facts I'm sure of, but the facts pertaining to her adult life are not as clear cut!



When Mary Jane was 25 years old she gave birth to a daughter named Constance Jean whilst living in Barcaldine, which is located in central Queensland. I have yet to work out how and why Mary Jane came to be living in central Queensland by 1912, given that her parents and most of her siblings were living in north-eastern New South Wales. 

The birth record for Mary Jane's daughter is very interesting.  At the time of registration the father's name was recorded as Arthur Moore.  The mother's name was recorded as Mary Jane formerly Wooley, and there was mention of a marriage between these two people exactly eight months previously. 

At the time though, Mary Jane was not married.

Birth Record for Constance Jean Dooley / Reid

The birth had been registered almost two months later, but then corrections were made at some future point.  The details of the marriage between Mary Jane Wooley and Arthur Moore were crossed out.  The word 'Reid' was written underneath the original name for the father.  The words 'formerly Wooley' were crossed out and 'Dooley' written alongside.

There was another word added underneath the details pertaining to the father ... illegitimate, which meant that this baby's surname was afterwards recorded as Dooley, the maiden name of her mother.  

Just a couple of years later, Mary Jane was pregnant again and a month before she gave birth to her second daughter, Mary Jane married Alexander Reid.  Reid?  Yes, the groom had the same surname that had been scribbled onto the birth record for Mary Jane's first born.


Mary Jane's first husband - Alexander Reid
Photo courtesy of Robert Waddell


Mary Jane Dooley married the man named Alexander Reid when she was 26 years old, on the 26th of April 1915.  


They married in Murwillumbah, New South Wales.

























Mary Jane's second daughter, Emma Eileen Mary (known as May), was born in early May of 1915, just a couple of weeks after the wedding of Mary Jane and Alexander.  


Given all these circumstances, it's highly probable that Mary Jane and Alexander had been in a relationship for a number of years, and Constance (Mary Jane's first daughter) was likely to have been Alexander's daughter as well.




Why did Mary Jane and Alexander marry after the birth of their second daughter?  



Likely because Alexander Reid was heading off to war and perhaps wanted to ensure his daughters legally had his name.











Mary Jane's partner, now husband, Alexander had enlisted just two days before their wedding, and his attestation paper indicated he was unmarried and had no next of kin.  






This caused a few issues for Mary Jane.  When Alexander was wounded in action in July of 1916, she received no notification from the AIF as they had no knowledge of any next of kin.  



A friend of Mary Jane's came across an item in the newspaper, which led Mary Jane to to contact the AIF to let them know she was Alexander's wife.


Mary Jane received this communication just a few days later.


The details on Alexander's attestation record were amended ...




Mary Jane Reid nee Dooley with her daughters Constance and Emma
Photo courtesy of Robert Waddell (3rd cousin once removed)



It's likely this photo of Mary Jane and her daughters was taken at the end of 1916, probably intended to be sent as as a Christmas gift to Alexander. 




Sadly, Alexander was reported as killed in action in the village of Walencourt, France on the 28th of February, 1917, and would never see his family again.



Alexander had apparently been mentioned in despatches during his service for
"conspicuous gallantry in patrol work in the vicinity of Butte Warlencourt".  I wonder if that was of any comfort for Mary Jane.










Mary Jane became a widow at the age of 29, and the two little girls Constance (known as Connie) and Emma Eileen May (known as May) grew up never really knowing their biological father.



The First World War impacted Mary Jane's siblings as well.  One of her brothers, Robert James Dooley, was wounded with gun shots to the right arm and right leg.  He was sent home on the hospital ship 'Llanstephen Castle' in April of 1918 and discharged as medically unfit in June of 1918.


In July of 1918, over a year after the death of her husband, Mary Jane gave birth to a son.  


Cyril James was born when Mary Jane was aged 30 and I have been unable to find out any details about the father of Cyril.  He did throughout his lifetime have the surname "Reid" however, which was the surname of Mary Ann's first husband.


Mary Jane's second husband - George Coldwell




Mary Jane did re-marry six years later, in 1924, when she was 37 years old.  




She married George Watson Coldwell in Bellingen, New South Wales. 


 









George had also served during WW1.  He had enlisted in November of 1916 and served in France.  George had been wounded in action in August of 1918 but made it home by the end of 1919.  I do wonder how George coped coming back home though, as so many who returned suffered in various ways for so long afterwards.


By the time Mary Jane had re-married, daughter Constance (known as Connie) was aged 12, Emma Eileen May (known as May) was 9, and Cyril James (known as Jim) was 6 years old.


Mary Jane and her second husband George went on to have two children.  Alice Joyce (known as Joy) was born in December of 1924 and Barbara June Agnes came along in 1929.  By this time Mary Jane was aged 41.




I can't imagine what Mary Jane would have thought when, just ten years later, the Australian Prime Minister, Robert Gordon Menzies, announced the beginning of Australia's involvement in World War 11.

Almost a million Australians, men and women, ended up serving during the second World War.  

Before 1939, the Australian Army had been broken into the Permanent Military Forces (PMF) and the larger Militia, but members could not serve outside the country according to the Defence Act of 1909, unless they volunteered.     

When Prime Minister Menzies made his announcement in late 1939, he stated that there was to be an expeditionary force with 20,000 members created, and it would be formed for overseas service.  It was to be known as the Second Australian Imperial Force, or the Second AIF.


Some of Mary Jane's children and her children's spouses became serving members of either the RAAF or the Second AIF.


Cyril James (Jim) Reid
Photo courtesy of Robert Waddell
(my 3rd cousin once removed)



Mary Jane's only son Cyril James Reid (known as Jim) served with the RAAF, the Royal Australian Air Force.

Cyril James Reid - enlistment photo
Photo courtesy of the National Australian Archives
Photo in public domain

Cyril enlisted with the RAAF in 1940 and served with the 23rd Squadron, based in Brisbane, Queensland.  He remained with the RAAF until his discharge in 1948.




Cyril married Muriel Emily Barnes nee Lemon in Brisbane, Queensland just before his discharge from the RAAF.  They married in October of 1947 and the photo below shows Cyril dressed in his uniform for the wedding.

Cyril James (Jim) Reid and his wife Muriel Emily (known as Babs) on their wedding day
Photo courtesy of Carol Chandler

Constance (Connie) Jean Chandler nee Reid
Photo courtesy of Carol Chandler



Mary Jane's eldest daughter Constance Jean Chandler nee Reid (known as Connie) enlisted at the Concord Military Hospital and served as a nurse in the Armed Forces. 


She enlisted in January of 1943 with the 2/11 Australian General Hospital and was discharged in July of 1946. 





















Edward Arthur Chandler
Photo courtesy of Carol Chandler











Connie had married Edward Arthur Chandler in 1939 and he went on to serve as well.







Edward enlisted with the 2/18th Infantry Battalion in 1940 and was discharged in December of 1945.

Edward Arthur Chandler - enlistment photo
Photo courtesy of the National Australian Archives
Photo in public domain





Murray Aubrey Waddell
Photo courtesy of Robert Waddell (my 3rd cousin once removed)




Mary Jane's second eldest daughter, Emma Eileen May Waddell nee Reid (known as May) married Murray Aubrey Waddell who served with the RAAF, Royal Australian Air Force.




Murray Aubrey Waddell -
enlistment photo
Photo courtesy of the National Australian Archives.
Photo in public domain.





Alice Joyce (Joy) Lenehan nee Coldwell
Photo courtesy of Robert Waddell
(my 3rd cousin once removed)
Mary Jane's third eldest daughter, Alice Joyce Lenehan nee Coldwell (known as Joy) served in the CMF, the Citizen Military Force.  


Alice enlisted in 1943 when she was 18 years old, and served as a Bombardier with the Australian Womens' Army Service.


Alice Joyce Coldwell -
enlistment photo
Photo courtesy of the National Australian Archives.
Photo in public domain.





Alice married William Harold Lenehan in 1951.  


William had enlisted in with the RAAF in 1943.  He had served with the 100 Squadron and was discharged in 1946.