Showing posts with label Lincolnshire. Show all posts
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Saturday, 6 April 2019

The Story of Susannah Lancaster

Now for the story of my paternal Great Great Great Grandmother, Susannah Lancaster  (1813 - 1879).


Susannah was christened on the 1st of April, 1813 in the Parish of Grantham, Lincolnshire, England.  Unfortunately the record of her baptism does not provide the full name of her mother.  Her father was recorded as Charles Lancaster, but her mother's name was simply recorded as Sarah.  This is one of the brick walls I've hit in my family tree research.  I've been unable to get back further on this side of the family tree despite a number of years of research.



Old map showing Manthorpe near the Belton Estate (1856)


My 3x great grandmother Susannah's baptism record does indicate that the family was living in the village of Manthorpe, which was part of the Belton Estate, along with other nearby villages.  In the 1800s, Manthorpe was a relatively small place, mainly consisting of estate worker's cottages with a couple of farms in the village and two or three small outlying farms.
Belton House / Belton Estate


The majority of the population would have worked for the Belton Estate, either in Belton House or the surrounding estate land which covered around 500 hectares.


An interesting side note is that the trade/profession of Susannah's father is listed as 'cordwainer'.  A cordwainer was apparently a shoemaker who made brand new shoes out of new leather, in contrast to a cobbler, who mostly mended shoes!  Susannah's father's clients were most likely the family and staff of Belton House.



Further research has uncovered that there were 13 children in total born to Charles Lancaster and his wife Sarah (Susannah's parents and my 4x great grandparents).  On every single record the parents' names are recorded as Charles and Sarah Lancaster, so that has not been helpful in discovering the maiden name of Susannah's mother.


The story of my 3x great grandmother's siblings goes like this:
Hannah was born in 1797.
Sarah was born in 1799, but died just 3 days after her birth.
Another Sarah was born in 1800.  Sadly she also passed away later in 1814, aged just 14.
Charles was born in 1801.
Mary came along in 1802, but she passed away in 1817, also aged 14.
Ann was born in 1804.
Christopher was born in 1807, but he died in 1810, aged 2.
Edward was born in 1808, but died in 1809.
Another Edward was born in 1810.
Lucy was born in 1811.

My 3x great grandmother Susannah came along in 1813 and at that point, there were 7 siblings still living.

The year after Susannah was born, her older sister Sarah (the 2nd) died at the age of 14.
A third Sarah was born later that same year, in 1814.
William was the last child, born in 1818.

Susannah would have been surrounded by 8 siblings during her early childhood, but then her sister Mary died in 1817 when Susannah was 4 years old.

All the children in the family were baptised at Church of England St. Wulfram's Church in Grantham, which was the seat of the Grantham Parish.  Their home was recorded as Manthorpe, which was just over a mile by foot from the church, (which is likely to have been the mode of transport for the family back then).  There was no church in Manthorpe until much later, in 1848.




St. Wulfram's, in nearby Grantham, would have been (and still is) a very impressive looking church!







It would have been something of a grand occasion taking children to be baptised in the spectacular font inside that church.



That is something I would definitely love to see one day, now that I know so many of the Lancaster family were baptised in that very font, back in the late 1700s and early 1800s.






In 1833, Susannah, then aged 20, gave birth to a daughter named Harriett.


On Harriett's baptism record, (which was added right at the bottom of the page!), it was noted that she was illegitimate.

Harriett was baptised at the same church as her mother - St. Wulfram's.

Interestingly though,
Susannah appears to have given a false name as the mother's name was recorded as 'Harriett'.

Susannah was not married at this time, and was still living in the hamlet of Manthorpe.

I imagine life would not have been easy for an unwed mother, especially in a small village where everyone would know your business.


Two years later, in 1835, Susannah married James Exton.


 They were married in All Saint's Church in the village of Fenton, in the Grantham Parish.






This was about a 14 mile walk away from Manthorpe, and quite a way from where they lived.


It was also quite a long way from the Church in Grantham where Susannah and all her siblings had been baptised.


I do wonder why they chose to go so far away for their wedding.  Perhaps it was not considered an ideal union by their respective parents!



Parish Marriage Register - Fenton 1835.


On the marriage record, James's surname was incorrectly spelt.  It was written as Exon, instead of Exton, which may mean he was not well known by anyone associated with the parish church.

Whatever the reason for travelling so far away to be married, they started their married life together in Manthorpe.  Susannah was 22 years old when she married.  Her husband James was aged 18.  Over the next 18 years they went on to have 9 children. 

Daughter Sarah was born in 1835.
Eliza came along in 1837.
Ann (known as Annie) was born in 1839.  Susannah was now aged 26.

1841 Census for the township of Manthorpe in the Borough of Grantham, Lincolnshire


In 1841, the Census record shows that Susannah, her husband James, and their daughters Sarah, aged 6; Eliza, aged 4; and Ann, aged 2; were all living in Manthorpe, in the Parish of Grantham.  Susannah's sister Sarah, aged 20; and her first-born daughter, Hannah aged 8, were also living at the same address.

Another daughter, Emma, was born the following year in 1842.  By then, my 3x great grandmother was aged 29.  Big life changes were about to happen.

A mere two years later, in March of 1844, Susannah, her husband James, her first-born daughter Harriett, and the couple's four daughters Sarah, Eliza, Ann and Emma; all boarded the ship The Briton to sail to Australia.

The family was part of the assisted immigrant scheme and made the 162-day voyage in the hope of a new life, a better life.  I can imagine the long journey would have been very tough for Susannah, taking care of her five children in the cramped, smelly, unhealthy space in the bowels of the ship.   

Assisted Immigrant Passenger List for the 'Briton' in 1844.


The records indicate that Susannah's occupation in England had been 'farm servant', whilst her husband's occupation was listed as 'farm labourer'.  These skills were regarded as valuable in the colony of Australia.

It was noted that Susannah could read, but she could not write.  Her religion was listed as Episcopalian, and her age was recorded as 29.  She was in fact 30 years old when she boarded the ship.  Her husband had been engaged by James Kenworthy of Richmond River in New South Wales, under the Assisted Immigrants system.

The Briton landed in Sydney in June of 1844, but the family had to wait for nearly another three weeks before they could disembark.  Once they were able to leave the ship, they boarded another boat and sailed to the Richmond River, ready to start work on their employer's station.

Unfortunately, Susannah's and James's employer died in September of 1844, not long after the family had arrived.  They were left unemployed for a period, as the station had been bought and added on to a nearby property.   It seems the family moved on to Tomki station for a while, but that didn't seem to last long though, because by the end of 1844 Susannah, James and the family arrived on Runnymede Station to work for Ward Stephens. They settled into a hut besides Back Creek and began the working life of shepherds.

Northern Star (Lismore, NSW), Saturday 14 March 1925, page 9
Many years later, an article appeared in the March 1925 edition of the Northern Star newspaper that was titled "River Romance:  Story of Pioneering Days of Over 80 Years Ago".


The article was a collection of memories retold by Ann Kin in 1918 about her days living on the Richmond River.


Part of that article tells the story of the Extons arrival at the sheep station at Back Creek.
"At this time Mr. and Mrs. Exton and their family came over from Tomki, where they had been employed by Mr. Barnes, and spent some time with the King family till a house was built for them. After living in that for a few months they were sent to live at the place where Mr. King had the encounter with the blacks."
The article goes on to tell how Susannah "saved the camp".
"One day the children noticed some bushes moving about, and drew their mother's attention to them. Mrs. Exton saw at once that it was the blacks on the same hill walking towards the house with the bushes in front of them. She immediately went in and dressed herself in Mr. Exton's clothes, got the gun and paraded in front of the hut, showing the gun, until Mr. Exton and a shepherd came home." 
I think the statement made by the author of this newspaper article sums up perfectly the person of my 3x great grandmother:  "Many of the present generation little dream of the wonderful resource, pluck and energy which characterised the lives of those of the earlier days who blazed the trail of civilisation on the north Coast; nor do they think of the hardships, often terrifying, which were the almost daily experience of those hardy men and women."

Life would have been very challenging and probably terrifying at different stages.  Susannah sounds like a courageous woman, determined to care for her family and work hard to make a life for them all, alongside her husband.

Susannah and James went on to have four children after they had arrived in Australia.
William was born in 1845, the year after their arrival.
Thomas came along in 1847.
Elizabeth (known as Betsy) was born in 1849.
Lucy was born in 1851.  By this time Susannah was aged 38.

Susannah outlived her husband James.  He died in 1876 when Susannah was aged 63.  Just a few years later though, Susannah passed away as well.

In November of 1879, Susannah died at the age of 66.



The death certificate states the cause of death was debility, which she had suffered for about 9 months.

The details of her age were incorrect, as she had not yet reached the age of 70.

She had lived in New South Wales for 35 years, and she was survived by all of her children.




Susannah's first-born daughter Harriett Lancester-Exton, married English convict John Michael Jones when she was aged 14.  They had a family of nine children.  Harriett then married Englishman Henry George Brown when she was 36 years of age, and they had two children.

Susannah would have met both Harriett's husbands, and all of her grandchildren, Harriett's eleven children.












Daughter Sarah Exton married Irish convict James Hugh McGuiness when she was 23 years old.  They had a family of eight children.

Susannah would have known all these grandchildren as well.

















Daughter Eliza married Irish convict Patrick Cusack when she was 15 years of age.  The had a family of eleven children, all of whom were born before Susannah passed away.



Daughter Ann (known as Annie) married Englishman William Clark when she was 14.  They had eight children.  Annie then married James Thompson when she was aged 37, and they had one son.

Susannah would have met both these sons-in-law and all these grandchildren as well.











Daughter Emma married James Dooley when she was 17.  They had a family of six.  Susannah would have only known four of these grandchildren.


Northern Star -Wednesday 22 July 1925 p7




Son William Exton never married.


He became a well-known figure in the Richmond River area.  His wrote quite a lengthy article for the Northern Star newspaper in 1925, in which he told his life story in some detail.











Son Thomas married Australian-born Eliza Silke Hughes when he was 20.  They had six children.

Thomas went on to found a business empire all his own, primarily in the timber industry.

Susannah would have only met five of these grandchildren.














Daughter Elizabeth (known as Betsy) married Francis Thomas McQuilty at the age of 16.  They had ten children.


Susannah would only have met five of these grandchildren.












Daughter Lucy married Irishman James McDonough when she was 17 years old.  They had a family of nine children.  Susannah would have known only five of these grandchildren as well.


Special Note to any family members:  If you have memories to add, photos or information to share, can I graciously ask that you do so.  Please use the comments box below or email me.  It may prove to be invaluable to the story and provide future generations with something to truly treasure.


Saturday, 30 March 2019

The Story of James Exton

This is the story of my paternal Great Great Great Grandfather James Exton (1816 to 1876).

Map showing Bourne, Lincolnshire



When James was born in October  of 1816 in Bourne, Lincolnshire, his father Edward Exton was 31 and his mother Ann Pearson was aged 36.


James was christened on October 10th at the Church of St. Peter and St. Paul in Bourne.


It seems that there was already one sibling in the Exton family when James was born.  

The eldest boy Edward had been born in 1814.

William was born in 1819, when James was 3 years old.

Thomas came along in 1822, when James was 6.




There is a story circulating amongst other branches the Exton family tree that Edward Exton, James's father, was a bigamist and married again even though his first wife was still alive.  He supposedly married a lady named Catherine Beeson in 1831 and they had three sons.  Apparently the first was born before the marriage.  Robert was born in 1828.  Charles was born in 1834, and George came along in 1836.



If this was the case, then I do have to wonder where my 3x great grandfather was living throughout this period of time.  Was he still living with his mother, or had his father taken all the children with him when he moved in with his second wife?  I've yet to find evidence of all this, so it's all supposition at this point.




Skipping ahead a few years, my 3x great grandfather James married the year after his supposed step-brother Charles was born.



On the 29th of January 1835, aged just 18, James married Susannah Lancaster.  They were married at All Saints Church, in Fenton, Lincolnshire.











Susannah (my 3x great grandmother) was aged 19 when she married James, and already had a daughter named Harriett.  Harriett had been born back in 1833, but was known as James's daughter for the remainder of her lifetime.

My 3x great grandfather James and my 3x great grandmother Susannah, went on to have nine children over the course of the next 18 years.

Sarah Emily was born in 1835.
Eliza was born in 1837.  James was now aged 21.
Annie came along in 1840.



The census records for 1841 show James Exton, his wife Susannah, and his children Sarah, Eliza and Ann, all living in the village of Manthorpe, in the Parish of Grantham, Lincolnshire.








1841 England, Wales & Scotland Census

James was employed as a farm labourer and was aged 25.

There was also a Sarah Lancaster and a Harriett Lancaster living at the same address.  Sarah was James's sister-in-law, and sister to Susannah.  Harriett was Susannah's daughter, born out of wedlock. 

I'm uncertain whether or not James was Harriett's biological father.  Perhaps he was, and had to wait until the age of 18 to marry Harriett's mother Susannah.  That doesn't explain why though Harriett continued to have her hyphenated name 'Lancaster-Exton' until her wedding day.  It seems likely that she was not James's biological daughter at all, but when James married Susannah, Harriett was to all intents and purposes his daughter from then on.

Daughter Emma was born the year after this 1841 census, in 1842.

There must have been some discontent brewing about their life in England though, as not long after the birth of Emma, James and his wife Susannah decided to risk everything and set sail for the Colonies.

By this time an assisted immigration system had been established in Australia whereby wealthy individuals in the colonies sent agents to places in England to recruit labour.  Those chosen had their passage paid and were promised employment for a period of time upon arrival.  Of course, alongside this was the prospect of a brand new life, far more promising than the life led in their home country.

In March of 1844 James and his family boarded the ship Briton.  Records show it was a ship of 776 tons and it left the port of Liverpool on the 15th of March.  The voyage to Australia lasted for 162 days.


James was listed as being aged 27 and his occupation was 'farm labourer'.  He was travelling with his wife Susannah and five daughters aged from 2 to 12.


Other details from the assisted immigrant passenger list show that James was the son of Edward and Anne, and came from Manthorpe in Lincolnshire.  He could read, but not write and his religion was recorded as Episcopalian.  The amount paid for his fare is recorded at the bottom  £18.7.6.



He had been engaged by James Kenworthy of Richmond River in New South Wales, under the Assisted Immigrants system.




Upon arrival in Sydney on the 22nd of June 1844, the family along with all the other assisted immigrants had to stay on board the ship for about 19 days. This occurred so that the employer and the immigrants were able to meet and sign a memorandum of agreement.


This document shows that James Kenworthy and James Exton signed this agreement on July 17th of 1844.


The memorandum stated that James and his family were engaged to work at Brook Station for 12 months wages at £15 per annum and there would be a weekly ration that included 20 lbs of beef or mutton, 31 lbs of sugar, 20 lbs of flour, 6 ozs of tea and a quantity of milk.


You can see that James, my 3x great grandfather, was unable to write his name and made his mark with a cross instead.



The family joined other immigrants and sailed to the Richmond River on board the Resolution on the 22nd of July, ready to start work for their employer.

Unfortunately, in a cruel twist of fate, James's employer, the said James Kenworthy, died in September of 1844, not long after James and his family had arrived. The property of James Kenworthy was bought by a man named Yabsley and became part of his Coraki property.

My 3x great grandfather James was then left unemployed for a period of time.  Clues about what happened next for James can be found in a short text called "The Richmond River Experiences of Ann King" dictated by the lady herself in 1918.  Ann was the daughter of William King who was employed by a man named Ward Stephens in 1844.

Ann was the daughter of William King who was employed by a man named Ward Stephens to work on his sheep station.

The King family had settled into a hut beside Back Creek by the end of 1844 and after living there for a few months, another family arrived.

This was James Exton, his wife Susannah and his family.





According to this account, James and his family had been working on Tomki station, owned by Clark Irving and run by a Mr. Barnes. 


James had now moved his family and was working for Ward Stephens as well.  He was aged 28.





James and his family settled into life on Ward Stephen's sheep station, living in the old King's family hut for a while and labouring as shepherds, with the ever-present risk of harm by the native Aboriginals in the area.

In an extract taken from an old diary entry by a lady named Magdalen Yabsley, mention is made of James and family, but in particular his wife Susannah, my 3x great grandmother ...

"Later another family was living in the same hut, when the children saw bushes moving. The men were away, but the woman dressed herself in her husband's clothing and showed her gun in front of the hut which deterred the Blacks."  
(diary entries of Magdalen Yabsley recorded on an online website Magdalen by Dorothy Kinny).

James and Susannah went on to have another four children born in Australia.

William was born in 1845.
Thomas came along in 1847.
Elizabeth (known as Betsy) was born in 1849.
Then Lucy was born in 1851.  James was now 34 years of age.

By this time, it seems he was no longer working on a sheep station.  He was now a cedar cutter, working with his son-in-law John Jones.

Harriett, James's step-daughter, had married Jones in 1847 when she was only 14 years old.  This was not uncommon in colonial times, but still does seem rather shocking to me.
Daughter Eliza (my great great grandmother) married in 1852 at the age of 15.
Daughter Sarah was married in 1853, at the age of 18.
Daughter Annie married in 1854, aged 14.
Emma married in 1859 when she was 17.
Elizabeth married in 1866, aged 16.
Thomas married in 1867 when he was 20.
Lucy married in 1868.  She was aged 17.

So it was that all his children, apart from William, had married by the time James was 52 years of age.

As stated earlier, James ceased working as a shepherd / station hand around 1847.  He then worked as a cedar cutter for a little while, but by the early 1850s it appears he had moved on from that form of employment as well.


There is mention of James Exton working alongside the Joneses as a cooper in Louise Tiffany Daley's book 'Men And A River:  Richmond River District  1828-1895.'

The author recounts that these men worked at the stock boiling-down plant on the Richmond River, built at Woram in the early 1850s.  Cattle were slaughtered, then boiled down in massive boilers near the river bank.
"Coopers like James Exton and the Joneses had collected staves for the great casks which stood in rows waiting to hold the tallow when it was cool.  Schooners were moored in the river waiting to carry the casks to Sydney."  (page 57)
At this time, James would have been around 40 years of age.


James died in 1876.  The cause of death was listed as 'natural decay'.  He was survived by 2 sons, 7 daughters and at least 35 grandchildren.

The details of his age, given by his son Thomas, appear to be incorrect.  He was actually aged 59, and died just a couple of months shy of his 60th birthday.





The quote on his headstone reads:
"Whilst on earth I did remain
My latter days were grief and pain
But God whose mercy ever free
Has from my pains released me."


It does sound as if James suffered in the last year or so of his life.  Perhaps all those years of hard physical work caught up with him.


One death notice mentions that James had lived on the Richmond River for over 30 years.

Not many of my ancestors made it into the papers in their day.  Generally, those that did had tiny little items published about family events or things associated with their business.  James Exton and the Exton family however, were the subject of quite a lengthy piece in 1995.

An article titled "Starting Out In A New Land" details the life of James and his family, along with other pioneer immigrants who came out around the same time to the Richmond River area.

The Northern Star, Tues Aug 15, 1995, p13

One of the lines that particularly appealed to me was ...  "The Exton family's story reads like the script for a Wild West movie"!!!


NOTE:  Even though the photo in the Northern Star article is captioned "James Exton", it is in fact a photo of his son Thomas, and was used incorrectly for the article.


Northern Star (Lismore, NSW : 1876 - 1954), Wednesday 22 July 1925, page 7

Another little gem I've stumbled across during my research was this little item published in the Northern Star in 1925.  William Exton, James's son, was recounting his early life and explained how his father's nickname came about!


Special Note to any family members:  If you have memories to add, photos or information to share, can I graciously ask that you do so.  Please use the comments box below or email me.  It may prove to be invaluable to the story and provide future generations with something to truly treasure.


Saturday, 9 June 2018

The Story of Eliza Exton

This week's story is about my paternal Great Great Grandmother, Eliza Exton (1838 - 1914).


Born in 1837 in the small village of Manthorpe in Lincolnshire, England; Eliza's father James Exton was aged 21 at the time, and her mother Susannah Lancaster was aged 22.

Eliza was their second born, and their second daughter.

Sister Sarah had been born in 1835, and there were to be another two siblings born in England.


Sister Ann was born in 1840.
Sister Emma came along in 1842.



Interestingly, the 1841 Census document for the township of Manthorpe in the borough of Grantham shows Eliza's father James and mother Susannah living with six-year old Sarah, four-year old Eliza (my great great grandmother), two-year old Ann, a Sarah Lancaster (who was Eliza's aunt, her mother Susannah's sister) and a Harriet Lancaster, aged 8.

Harriet was later listed as 'the daughter of Susannah before her marriage' in other records, and James Exton was listed as her stepfather.  That made her my great great grandmother Eliza's half-sister, so there were 4 daughters in the family at that time.  Then Emma came along the following year.

The village of Manthorpe, where my great great grandmother Eliza was born, was an estate village established near the estate of Belton House, built for the Brownlow family and completed in 1689.  Manthorpe lies around 1 mile to the north of Belton House.  I think it would be safe to make the assumption that many of the men and women living in Manthorpe would have worked on the estate of Belton House.

At the time of the 1841 English Census, Eliza's father's and mother's occupations were listed as 'labourer', so I will make the quantum leap and guess that they were both working as farm labourers on the estate, and not working for themselves.  Times would have been tough for the family, attempting to live on poor labourer's pay.  It would not come as any surprise therefore that Eliza's parents made the decision to emigrate, lured by the prospect of a better life.



The introduction of the 'assisted immigration' scheme, often referred to as the Bounty System, enabled many people, primarily from Ireland, but also from Scotland and England, to migrate to Australia.

Indentured immigrants were bought out to Australia as contract labourers for employers who paid the Government for their passage.










The 'Briton' set sail from Liverpool on March the 15th 1844, bound for Australia.  There were 269 bounty immigrants aboard, including the members of the Exton family.


James, aged 27; Susannah, aged 28; Harriet (listed as their daughter) aged 11; Sarah, aged 8; Eliza, aged 6; Anne, aged 4; and baby Emma, aged 1; left England on a three-month voyage to Australia.


As 'assisted immigrants' they would have been packed into steerage aboard The Briton, and conditions would have been tough. They would have been living in cramped shared spaces, with no privacy.  Aboard The Briton it's likely they slept on hammocks instead of beds. Illnesses would have spread quickly, and no doubt sea-sickness would have afflicted many.

My mind immediately turns to the boredom that must have set in.  There wasn't much to do every day in such conditions, although I'm sure James and Susannah would have taken the five girls up on deck for some fresh air and to provide some space to play a little.  Would that have happened every day?  I wonder.  I also wonder what impression it all left on my great great grandmother Eliza, who was only six years old when sailing on this voyage to Australia.

Australian (Sydney, NSW), Thursday 27 June 1844, page 2.



I always try hard to find out as much as I can about the voyages of my immigrant ancestors, but in the case of the Extons' voyage in 1844, I have been unable to find out any details at all, other than the fact that the ship arrived in Sydney on the 26th of June; as noted in The Australian newspaper dated June 27th.






The family went to live and work in the Richmond River district, as Eliza's father had been employed to work as a farm labourer in that area.  Eliza's mother would have worked as a farm servant as well, and there is no doubt at all that all the daughters would have worked alongside their mother and father every day.

The following year, in 1845, brother William was born when Eliza was 7 years old.
Brother Thomas was born in 1847.

Eliza's older sister (her half-sister) Harriet married that same year, 1847.  She was aged 14, and married a convict who had been transported out to the colonies, nine years previously.

Elizabeth (known as Betsy) came along in 1849.
Lucy was born in 1851, when Eliza was aged 13.

In December of 1852, my great great grandmother Eliza married.  She was aged 15 and married a convict named Patrick Cusack who had been transported out from Ireland.

Marriages at such a young age were not uncommon in the colonies at that time.  There had been a severe imbalance of white men and white women in the colonies since the First Fleet had arrived.  The population had been critically short of women for about a century. Under the assisted immigration scheme, the ratio between men and women had reduced significantly by the 1840s.  By then, it was 2 to 1.  Of course, for the women who were living in Australia in the 1840s onwards, there were very limited opportunities for them to support themselves and marriage was really their only option.  There was no better future for them.



For many couples wishing to marry while living in places such as the Richmond River area at this time, there was no church or chapel nearby to attend on their wedding day, and very often the minister was just too far away unless the wedding was planned to coincide with one of the minister's expected twice-yearly journeys around the area baptising, marrying or burying.

Luckily for Eliza and Patrick however, the minister Coles Child was obviously in the area in December and was able to conduct the event.  As can be seen on the marriage record above, they were married in the 'usual place of public worship' at a place named Tunstall.

Tunstall was in fact a pastoral property, what we refer to here in Australia as a station.  It was around 19,000 acres in size with about 1200 cattle grazing on the land, close to what would become known as the town of Lismore. Whilst there would have been a house on the station, it's highly unlikely that religious services were conducted inside that house.

It's far more likely that worshippers gathered under a tree somewhere nearby, perhaps by the creek on the eastern side.

That is where Eliza and Patrick would have been married ... out in an open space under the blue sky ... an open-air chapel.  There would have been no special wedding dress and no wedding reception.






At the time of Eliza's marriage, her father was working as a cedar cutter as was her prospective husband.   They were in fact working alongside each other. Cedar cutting was a dangerous occupation and the families of these men lived in quite harsh conditions.

Cedar cutters required a licence, paid every year, that allowed them to fell trees on unallocated crown land.  While it gave the cutters the right to cut down and export the timber, they could not settle or build permanent homes on this land.  As a result, the sawyers and their families lived in temporary camps.  Eliza would have been living in such a camp for at least a couple of years before her marriage.

As I have stated, Patrick Cusack, now Eliza's husband, and her father were known to each other, so Eliza would have met Patrick whilst living in one of the cedar cutter's camps in the Richmond River area with her family.

Eliza and Patrick went on to have 11 children over a period of 21 years.  Most of these children were born in similar timber cutter's camps to the ones Eliza had lived in before her marriage.  The family moved around to wherever Patrick was able to find work as a cedar cutter.

Thomas was born the year after Eliza had married.  She would have still been 15 years of age at the time.
Daughter Susannah (named after Eliza's mother) was born in 1855.
James was born in 1856.
Patrick came along in 1858.
Ann was born in 1860.  By this time, Eliza was 23 years of age.
Ellen (my great grandmother) was born in 1862.
Daughter Eliza came along in 1864.
Julia was born in 1867.
William came along in 1869.
Sarah was born in 1871.
Mary was born in 1874.

The years between her marriage and the birth of her last child would have been years of hard work for Eliza, often on the move, living in camps in non-permanent shelter, taking care of the children and the daily chores.  I have a vision of a weather-beaten face, sunburnt arms, wrinkled and calloused hands, but great inner strength and resilience.

Example of a slab hut in the 1870s
At some point around the early 1870s, it does appear that Patrick and Eliza were living on a small landholding in a more substantial permanent type of home, likely made of hand-hewn wooden slabs.

It may have looked something similar to this example shown here, although perhaps a little larger given that it would have housed 13 people.





Unfortunately for Eliza, the next few years would test her considerably.  Her husband Patrick died in early 1876 at the age of just 47.  They had been married for 23 years.  Eliza's father James passed away just a couple of months later, aged 59.  That was not the end of the horrors for Eliza in 1876 however, as her daughter Mary, her youngest child, died the same year at the age of 2.  What a terrible year for Eliza.  One blow after another.



By this time her daughter Susannah was 21, had married and had begun her own family.  Eliza's eldest sons, James and Patrick, were aged 20 and 18 and were already out working, beginning a life of their own.  Eliza's other children would have been still living at home with her as Ann was 16, Ellen 14, Eliza was aged 12, Julia was 9, William was 7 and Sarah was 5 years old.  I have found no evidence as yet to indicate just how Eliza supported her family at this time.  I would assume her family, her mother and siblings, would have provided much needed assistance to help her deal with such heartbreak.

Sadly, Eliza's mother Susannah passed away just three years later in 1879.  By this time Eliza was 41 years of age.  The next period of her life would have been filled with joy, as she watched her other children leave home and begin families of their own; but also filled with further sadness, as she experienced the loss of several other family members.

Her daughter Ann had married in 1878 and began her own family.
Her son James married in 1882.
Sisters Ellen and Eliza married brothers in 1883.

Sadly Eliza lost her son Thomas in 1886, when he was 33.
Eliza also lost her sister Sarah in 1891.

Her daughter Sarah married the following year, in 1892.

Then Eliza's son William passed in 1901.

Daughter Julia married in 1903.

Eliza lost her sister Lucy in 1904.

By this time Eliza was aged 66, and was living with her unmarried son Patrick.  It appears that she had moved in with him sometime shortly after all her daughters had married.  So that could possibly have been around 1901.


There is a census record for 1913 that shows her living at Crown Street in Lismore, with her son Patrick.  By this time however, she was ill.  She had been quite ill for around two years, and Patrick had been looking after her.

Not long after this census however, Eliza became completely bed-ridden and moved in with her daughter Ellen.  Eliza remained in Ellen's house for eight months, until she died in March of 1914.

Eliza's death certificate lists chronic endocartitis (which she had apparently suffered with for several years), senility and heart failure.


Eliza's obituary appeared in the Northern Star newspaper on Friday the 13th of March.  It stated:


"THE LATE ELIZA CUSACK.

One by one the links forged with the past are dropping out, and now another has gone in the passing away of the late Mrs. Eliza Cusack in her 79th year at the residence of her daughter, Mrs. R. Brown, Woodlark Street, Hospital Hill. 

The deceased, the third daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs. James Exton, was a native of Lincolnshire, England, coming to Australia with her parents in 1844 when she was nine years of age. After landing in Sydney they came up to Tomki under engagement to the late Mr. Clarke Irving. 

Early in the fifties she married Mr. Patrick Cusack who predeceased her nearly 40 years ago. After her marriage she resided for some time at Bungabee, her husband being engaged in the timber trade. Then they went to Boorie and Terania Creek. Since all her daughters married she has been living with her youngest son, Patrick, till eight months ago, and then resided with the daughter above mentioned who nursed her to the last. 

The deceased was one of the oldest residents of the district, and many have been the tales told by her of the early pioneering days, its difficulties and trials, encounters with the blacks, etc. During her long illness of 2 1/2 years, the last eight months of which she has been bed-ridden, her spiritual wants were attended to by the Rev Canon Whyte, Church of England, of which church she was an adherent."






The part of her obituary I particularly loved was the last section, which detailed the legacy she had left behind.

"Four generations of descendants has she lived to see born into the family fold, iv., two sons and six daughters .
James (Byron Bay)
Patrick (Lismore),
Susannah (Mrs H Harris, Kerrong),
Annie (Mrs. W J Cooke, Broadwater).
Ellen (Mrs. R. Brown, Lismore),
Eliza (Mrs. W. Brown, Keerrong),
Julia (Mrs. Proctor , Sydney ),
and Sarah (Mrs. Noonan, Mullumbimby).

Then fifty-two grandchildren, forty great grandchildren, and the great great grandchild."

What a wonderful legacy!  Eliza was survived by two of her sons, six of her daughters, fifty-two grandchildren, forty great grandchildren, one great great grandchild, four of her sisters and two of her brothers.  Most of this large family lived nearby and it's likely Eliza would have seen them quite regularly.


So ended the story of my great great grandmother.  Eliza was buried in the Church of England section of the new Lismore cemetery in 1914.  Despite her age being recorded in her obituary as 79, and then recorded as 75 on her cemetery headstone, Eliza was in fact aged 77.

Ten years later, her son Patrick, whom she had lived with and been cared by in her latter years, was buried beside her.




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